Tuesday, 1 October 2013

To: "Grandfather", Happy International Day of Older Persons

Older persons are wonderful.  There's no other way to describe it.

Their years of experience makes them an invaluable bank of knowledge and wisdom, and it's all free :) You just have to talk to them to withdraw.  I spent much of my high school days volunteering at senior homes.  Each second was well worth it.  I recall nights before I got my license, my mom would come along close to midnight and have to pry me away.  I would be consumed in a 1950's showing of "Carousel" between Mrs. Clarke and Dorothy on the living room couch, or in the middle of a pink yarn crochet session trying to attempt a scarf.

I spent hours with Roy analyzing paintings hung on his bedroom walls, listening to him reminisce over the making of each one until his snoring took over.  I sat in the foyer waiting patiently with Mrs. Clarke for her packages from Germany (they always enclosed a delectable box of chocolates and a beloved postcard, my German lesson).

I met both my grandfathers once, when I was two.  Both eventually died of cancer, and oceans and miles had kept us apart anyway.  I did meet "Grandfather" though.  He was everything I imagined my own grandfathers to be.  Though I lost him too, not to cancer, but to another sad experience, I will always think of him fondly.One day I'll be old too, and hopefully as amazing as the seniors who have blessed my life ;)

Happy 91st birthday this year "Grandfather", Happy International Day of Older Persons.

Pencil sketch, a favourite medium of mine, of "Grandfather"
(Note: no tortillon/stump)

Chloe Golightly
...on holiday.

chloelnlam@gmail.com

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